Mostly, I tend to work on the premise of what my parents might think if they read what I'm about to post. (My parents are quite liberal though so maybe I should think what about what my grandmother would think instead?!)
Sometimes though, you might write an email that you think is private, to a trusted friend and it can all still go horribly wrong for you.
Take the case of Harry Fildes. He was emailing his friend Sebastian Marsh to give him the go ahead to 'have a go' at his ex-girlfriend. Very noble of him. Unfortunately for Harry though, he copied in his ex-girlfriend Jenni, whom he already shared a somewhat fracticious relationship with (and a house, to really top things off nicely). When Harry realised his error, he emailed Sebastian again and Sebastian, being the great mate that he is, forwarded the email exchange onto a number of colleagues.
Sebastian has now been suspended, pending further investigations and Harry is also being investigated.
The moral of the story? Pick better friends, perhaps?
Poor Harry made a mistake and he's now rightly paying for it. But this could impact on his future career. It's common practice for prospective employers to Google you and do you really want a full page of hits detailing your misdemeanours using a work e-mail account? I think not.
It's not just Harry though, oh no. Jacqueline Howett, self-published author made a bit of a fool of herself this week too. Big Al, of Big Al's Books and Pals wrote a fair and mostly positive review of Jacqueline's Book, The Greek Seaman (not what it sounds like). He did however, comment on some of the sentence structures, spelling and grammar. Fair enough.
Jacqueline didn't take too kindly to this and angrily posted a response to Big Al's review. She then copied a couple of reader review's from Amazon to prove her point. Cue a great raft of responses from other readers and Big Al himself, who rightly said that he was entitled to his own opinion. It would seem that Jacqueline didn't agree with this though. Apparently, she only wants you to review her book if your review is positive.
To read the full and frankly hilarious article and subsequent comments: http://booksandpals.blogspot.com/2011/03/greek-seaman-jacqueline-howett.html?commentPage=1
Both of these particular stories have gone viral, which, I imagine, will be damaging to all parties involved (except for Big Al, I think he's come out smelling of roses). For Jacqueline, whilst telling commentors to "f*** off" might have been particularly satisfying at the time, I hope that she woke the next day with that cold feeling of dread and worked hard to undo the damage that she had done.
Maybe now, more than ever, we all need to think a little harder before we click "send". What we do in that second could impact on our entire futures.
*click*